1. Ask the school-speech pathologist if you could participate
in some of his therapy sessions. This way, you can learn the skills he
is learning and find out the best ways to work with him in the home
environment.
2. Ask your son what he wants you and others to do when he is
having trouble speaking. Let him know that you have time to
listen. Create a time each day to have a 5-10 minute conversation.
Always talk face-to-face. Practice having him "watch your face" when he
talks, even if he is stuttering. Good eye contact displays confidence.
3. Learn more about stuttering. The Stuttering Foundation of America website (
www.stutteringhelp.org) has general information about stuttering. Their DVD,
Stuttering: Straight Talk for Teachers provides helpful information about stuttering. The Web site
www.stutteringhomepage.com has an information section for parents. Support organizations such as Friends (
www.friendswhostutter.org) and the National Stuttering Association (
www.westutter.org) provide an opportunity to meet other parents of school-age children who stutter.
4. You can speak with the school therapist,
who may offer assistance with your son's anxiety related to stuttering.
Helpful clinical resources include the
Cognitive Behavior Therapy DVD as well as
David Luterman's DVD on
counseling. You, as the parent, may also benefit from these DVD's. One
helpful exercise is called the "Worry Ladder," which comes from a
workbook addressing school-age
children's attitudes and feelings about stuttering. You and your son
can talk about what he "worries" about from the smallest worry to the
biggest. Sometimes having a way to talk about anxieties can help
reassure the child. If he has a particular concerns, such as anwering
questions aloud in class, you can help him by practicing with relevant
school material at home. He can also go to school a few minutes early
and practice with the teacher by himself until he gets more comfortable
talking in front of the entire class. The social worker or psychologist
at your son's school may also provide support for the clinician working
with your son. Anxiety related to stuttering can be very normal.
Editor's Note - You may want to share these resources by
Dean E. Williams, Ph.D., with your child's school speech-language
pathologist: Working With Children in the School Environment and
Talking with Children Who Stutter.
Most importantly, let your son know what he says is always the most important thing. Best of luck!
by Kristin A. Chmela, M.A., CCC-SLP of Northwestern University
copied from http://www.stutteringhelp.org/content/ask-experts